This blog chronicles my life as I try to balance healthy lifestyle habits with my husband's penchant for pizza rolls and my daughter's desire to watch iCarly 8 hours a day. It contains a mostly humorous, kind, and somewhat spiritual look at everyday life and the people who live it.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Census 2010: Are you represented in your house?
I started looking around my house to see how balanced we were. I was shocked to discover that no picture of me existed in the house! There were plenty of pictures of my daughter, many of them with my husband too, but none of me. I knew I was responsible for this absence because I am the one who makes 99% of the decorating decisions and 100% of the photo placement decisions. I also knew how it happened: over the years as my taste in frames changed and we moved and our daughter was born and pictures were put up and taken down and frames reused and I'm usually the one who takes the pictures which means I'm not in a lot of them so the next thing you know: I've disappeared from the displayed photos.
I immediately went through a box of photos, picked out 3 that I was in and re-did the photo display. There! Problem solved. But then when we moved to our current house and I was putting out the family pictures I noticed something else. There was not a single picture of Steve and me together. We've been married for almost 19 years and yet there was no photographic evidence that we had ever been in the same room together! I remedied that situation as well.
Look around your house. Are you represented? Is it a priority for there to be beautifully framed pictures of you as well as the spouse, children, even pets? If not, why not? For your inspiration, here are some of the photos that now reside in my house: